Each year, I’m fortunate to be invited to an event called “Queen for a Day”. Local women from several churches work together to pamper caregivers and provide fellowship and support. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to attend for several years, but I’m often reminded of an incredibly moving part of the day I attended six years ago. Each caregiver had holy water poured over her hands as the following prayer was read. It’s stuck with me over the years, and I hoped it could provide you the strength and feeling of support it did for me.
Being a mother of a special needs child often feels lonely, so let me remind you…You are not alone. Although you may not know us, we are in your community. We “get it” and if we had more time in a day we would seek you out to tell you we are here for you. Sadly, we’re often in self-preservation mode – with no time to seek out new friendships.
So, until we can share some time together, learn from each other, share doctor’s and therapist’s names, and also confide our worries and share our fears while holding back tears, please take comfort in this blessing and knowing that tonight – as my sweet Michael sleeps soundly, I am thinking of you.
Blessing of the Hands
Bless these hands with their gentle touch;
bless these hands as they caress the ones they love so much.
Bless these hands that clasp in prayer;
bless these hands that seek God’s guidance each hour.
Bless these hands that push the wheelchairs;
bless these hands that assist with the stairs.
Bless these hands that drive the vans;
bless these hands that schedule doctor and therapy plans.
Bless these hands that shampoo, bathe, and touch;
bless these hands that rub the lotion and such.
Bless these hands that comb the hair and dress;
bless these hands as they seek to bless.
Bless these hands that brush the teeth and stroke the face;
bless these hands as they see Your grace.
Bless these hands as they work the feeding tubes;
bless these hands, they are YOURS to use.
Bless these hands as they hold the spoon up;
bless these hands as they lift the cup.
Bless these hands as they wipe the slobber and drool;
bless these hands, they are a useful tool.
Bless these hands as they deliver the meds;
bless these hands as they made the beds.
Bless these hands that massage muscles and painful nerves;
bless these hands that are used to serve.
Bless these hands that soothe through seizures and pain;
bless these hands that long to heal and take away the pain.
Bless these hands that pray for healing, relief, and peace;
bless these hands that pray with great belief.
Bless these hands that clean mess after mess;
bless these hands with patience as they are put to the test.
Bless these hands that wipe the tears;
bless these hands that long to take away the fears.
Bless these hands as they wipe yet more tears;
bless these hands as they long to take away the rejection from peers.
Bless these hands as they wipe tears of their own;
bless these hands that do this in secret, they cry alone.
Bless these hands that are often wrung in worry and fear;
bless these hands with comfort from loved ones so dear.
Bless these hands that grow weary and tired;
bless these hands may they always be gentle, kind, and inspired.
Bless these hands Lord, which are dedicated to YOU;
bless these hands that are YOURS to work through.
Bless these hands Lord, with power from above;
bless these hands to deliver YOUR intimate love.
